An Expat's Journey Living in India and Morocco

An Expat’s Journey Living in India and Morocco


I was recently on a podcast where the interviewer asked me some good questions. I shared my story as a Black American expat who has lived in India and Morocco in a way I never have before. Today, I am unpacking my expat journey even more to give you a chance to learn more about me and hopefully envision a new way you can travel and work abroad one day.

Check out the Adventure Calls podcast here.

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    Before we begin, let me briefly share my life before I became an expat. I worked in STEM education, which was both rewarding and challenging at the same time. Inspiration was a constant in my work, and serving young women and girls fulfilled me.

    Around the same time, I was making natural hair videos on YouTube and doing pretty well! So, my hair and YouTube channel grew.  

    Then, something beautiful happened in my life. My (then) boyfriend, Gozie, asked me to marry him! I had a decision to make. The decision to marry him was an automatic yes. But that yes was also tied to A LOT. It meant I had to leave my job, my family, and my home for the promise of a life that offered so much more.  

    Jasmine and Gozie on their wedding day!


    Fast forward to my marriage, a couple of months living in the Virginia/D.C. area, and learning French. Then, I moved to Morocco for the first time in my entire life traveling abroad.

    I had dreamed of a life of travel before it happened. I always knew it was something I would do one day. But I did not know how it was going to happen. In my thirties, I realized that the wishes, hopes, and dreams we had as children or young adults can come true. But we don’t always realize this until we are older. That’s because we let fear and insecurities distract us from who we are meant to be.

    Selfie at Hassan II Mosque in Casablanca, Morocco

    My move to Morocco was pretty rough for the first few months. I know most people will say, “You know you didn’t have to move abroad if you didn’t want to or didn’t feel like that was something you could do.” My answer to that statement is moving abroad, when I did, was the right decision for my family and me at the time.


    Gozie works for the U.S. Government, and we were assigned to serve in Morocco for our first post. Although the job was gratifying for him and gave him a purpose, I struggled with who I was during my first couple of months in Morocco. I was depressed at times and very homesick. I even racked up about $1,000 in phone service charges because I talked to my family so much and did not realize I needed to manage my phone service differently.

    Jasmine and Gozie’s first trip to France!

    My saving grace during this time was my YouTube channel. I transitioned from that natural hair content I was doing early on to sharing my expat and travel experiences with my family and friends back home.

    I was also very fortunate for my job teaching local colleagues English and professional development. It was great because I not only got to work and teach, but I also got to build relationships and friendships with people I admire and still admire today. The key to acclimating to my new home in Morocco was getting out into Casablanca, traveling the country, and exploring.


    When I lived in Morocco, finding my identity was something I struggled with, even though I did not realize it was a cause of stress. As a diplomat’s wife (often known as the ‘trailing spouse’), I was automatically given labels that put me into boxes to define who I was and what my role was supposed to be. Conversations that targeted my insecurities were had early on in my expat journey (and continue to this day).

    A question like, “What do you do?” was never easy to answer because I was still trying to figure out who I was and wanted to be, especially after living a different life before I was ever considered an expat. I didn’t know then that with this lifestyle, finding my identity multiple times within a couple of years is typical. There is no time limit in the self-discovery process. We have to be careful not to let the fear of what others think of us cause insecurities that stop us from becoming who we are meant to be.

    A YouTube channel and social media platforms have always helped me stay sane and somewhat consistent with my life. Making videos and sharing my life online has always been something I did, even before getting married and becoming an expat. I love that I can take my camera anywhere I travel or move. While in Morocco, making YouTube videos gave me a sense of purpose and fulfillment. When I started to worry about growth and income, YouTube became another source of stress for me.


    In 2018, I moved to Hyderabad, India, and I was more open with my life this time. However, when it came to the stages of being an expat, the honeymoon phase came quickly. It was nice for about two weeks until we realized how unsustainable living in a hotel is with another person for multiple weeks while working (and not on vacation).

    We then moved into the apartment that we lived in for two years. There was a culture shock during that time, but I got over that quickly. Living in Casablanca, Morocco, was similar in many ways to my life in Hyderabad. Of course, Hyderabad was bigger than Casablanca, but much of what I saw and experienced in India wasn’t different from my life in Morocco.

    Some things did frustrate me while living in India, however. But my mindset allowed me to see things for what they were while not giving much agency to those concerning me.

    On the other hand, I struggled a lot in my personal life during this time. I was not comfortable with who I was AGAIN, and I struggled to find my purpose and identity in this new phase of my life. Transitioning again was difficult, and I had trouble adjusting. But as I mentioned, during my time in Morocco, I could get out and explore, which allowed me to connect with the country and its people. In India, finding those same connections took a bit more effort.

    Black woman with natural hair
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    Where we lived in India was a little more secluded compared to where I lived in Morocco. So, getting out and seeing the city was a bit of work. I had a friend who lived nearby, and she was a great companion. We went for walks and auto rides to different places around the city, which helped me find my groove and connect with Hyderabad. Exploring also enabled me to enjoy my neighborhood a lot more.

    Some undesirable places felt uncomfortable walking or driving past at first, but after I went past those areas one or two times, I got used to navigating them. These minor occurrences significantly impacted my life, and activities like walking and taking autos to new places in my neighborhood became a part of my routine.

    Giving myself grace was also a big part of my finding my purpose. Trying something new and being okay if it was not suitable for me or did not add positive value to my life was vital. Also, giving myself time and space not to be okay for a while was essential in growing.

    Now I feel better prepared for the transitional phases I know I experience when I move abroad or back home. In addition, this knowledge will hopefully better equip me as I navigate my ups and downs.


    We have talked a lot about purpose in this post. And to me, having meaning in my life separate from moving abroad and being an expat is essential. I need other things in my life to shape who I am and to give me an identity. Sometimes, only being an expat or trailing spouse, in my opinion, is limiting. So, I’ve done a lot of soul-searching, and I honestly think this post is what I needed to share to open up.


    Let’s talk a little more about my time in India. Early on, I created a lot of content and taught English online. Thank goodness for my friend Jazzie Mas (@BlackDigitalNomad). She encouraged me to apply to an online English teaching program, which brought me joy and gave me something to do when I struggled.

    Then, I got a job with the U.S. government, working with American expats and their families to help them acclimate to India. I supported my community with employment opportunities, resources, and much more. I even posted a weekly newsletter. The job was gratifying, especially during the pandemic.

    I did so much more than I thought I could. Doing this job gave me a different purpose, and I could serve people in ways I never thought possible. I was very thankful to have a job during this challenging time and to have something to do. I’m a person that needs to keep busy, especially during tough times.


    I feel like I’ve shared a lot, but I probably have not even scratched the surface of expat life, the difficulties of being an expat, and how most of the things we deal with abroad don’t have to do with the places we call ‘home.’

    Personally, the issues I’ve had primarily focused on my resilience, or lack thereof, in certain situations and my mental health. It’s hard to be vulnerable and share these things with you, but I hope my story is helpful and encourages you to try something new, travel, and maybe move abroad at least once. I’m so grateful for my experiences, and I wouldn’t trade them for anything.

    Despite the negativity I have felt due to my insecurities, lack of purpose, relationships with others, and the countries I’ve lived in, I cannot wait to move abroad somewhere else one day.

    Have you ever thought about living abroad for work and a different lifestyle?


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